Overwhelming Positivity Exercise
When you are feeling overwhelmingly negative give yourself a self-infused shot of positivity and then hold yourself accountable for accomplishing the tasks you have given yourself. It can be even better if you do have someone, such as a loved one or a personal therapist, to assist you in your own accountability to start out.
The idea is to write down 10-15 tasks or behaviors that are very positively oriented and then do what ever you can to accomplish each and every one of those tasks DAILY. You can use S.M.A.R.T. a technique for writing achievable goals but the main idea of this exercise is down and dirty--Just do it!
Once you have your list then decide which item is probably the hardest to achieve on a daily basis and make sure you accomplish that one first and foremost. If that item changes daily then change it accordingly.
Example:
- Daily walks (exercise)
- Daily journaling
- Spend an hour outside
- Job hunting 30-45 minutes daily
- When engaging in negative self talk read/recite positive affirmations
- Take more time for personal appearance
- Eat 3 solid meals per day
- Contact at least one person/friend per day
- Respond to all personal communications by end of day
- Daily think of one good thing you can do for yourself that is not already on this list AND do it!
- Etc...